This is for anyone going through a hard time.
You're going to lose sleep. Doubt yourself. Wonder if you made the right call and have no way to know for years.
That's what “hard” actually feels like: Known costs with unknown payoffs with few mile markers. You’re not sure if you're lost or on the right path.
But here’s the good news: Hard means no one else will do it.
Which means...
Good...
More for you.
When you’re younger, "hard" feels like a warning to slow down, pivot, stop, etc. But once you understand what the path is actually supposed to look like, hard becomes a filter. Every wall you climb over is one more person selected out of the success pool. You survived this round of culling.
What to actually do:
Flip the script from "poor me" to "poor everyone else who has to try."
The other thing nobody tells you about the early days:
You're fighting a bear with a stick while someone further down the path is
fighting a dragon with a nuclear bomb and six nations behind them.
The bear fight is actually harder. You just don't know it yet because you haven't seen the dragon...
And here's the unfortunate reality:
Nobody cheers for
you when you need it most.
When you're in the lonely chapter, too different from your old friends but not successful enough for your new ones, that's when you want support the most.
That's exactly when you won't get it. So don’t expect it.
You have to be the single clap in an empty auditorium. For a long time. And that’s okay. The loneliness IS the proof. Proof that you're on the right path. Because if everyone were cheering, you'd just be like everyone else. Average. And that’s not where you want to be.
For you have to have a story worth telling at
the end of your life...
You have to go through things other people weren’t willing to.
– Alex Hormozi